2729.Growth is painful.It's like clearing out your drawers by pulling out every little thing inside of you,examining it,and deciding whether to throw it out or not.It can be scary.Therefore,if you have the following feelings,that's the beginning of growing. Uncertainty During the process of growth,you should feel uncertain. (1)
Let it run its course and enjoy the aimlessness as much as you can. Selfdoubt (2)
Everything you've come to know about yourself and your life is now being examined.If you're not feeling selfdoubt,you're not going deep enough.Keep digging.The moment that you feel selfdoubt is the dark night before the dawn. Insecurity(不安全感 ) Many people believe that insecurity is shameful.However,it means that you are moving from one stage to the next.You are stepping into a completely unknown part of yourself. (3)
Fear Do you know why you've been kept away from your chances to grow?(4)
Keep moving forward and pushing beyond it. Anxiety Where there is insecurity,fear,and uncertainty,there is surely anxiety.Anxiety is part of growth.You have very little control over what happens to you.However,you can control how you react to it.You can choose to stick your head in the sand and stay the same,or you can grow and be free. (5)
A.The choice is yours. B.You don't know where to go yet. C.Be grateful for these scary feelings. D.You're growing into a whole new stage. E.That's the fear that has kept you from moving on. F.Of course you will feel doubtful about what you're doing. G.It's only natural that you wouldn't feel wholly sure of yourself.